Scaachi Koul
Scaachi Koul
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Full Name and Common Aliases
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Scaachi Koul is a Canadian journalist, writer, and humorist. Her name is often spelled "Kaul" in various publications.
Birth and Death Dates
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Scaachi Koul was born on November 11, 1985.
Nationality and Profession(s)
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She holds Canadian citizenship and works as a journalist, writer, and humorist. Koul has written extensively for several prominent publications, including The New Yorker, The Guardian, and Hazlitt.
Early Life and Background
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Scaachi Koul was born in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. Her family is of Indian descent. Growing up in a culturally diverse neighborhood had a profound impact on her writing style and perspective. She developed an interest in humor and storytelling at an early age.
Koul attended the University of Toronto, where she studied English literature and drama. During her time at university, she began to develop her writing skills by contributing to various student publications and literary magazines.
Major Accomplishments
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Scaachi Koul's breakthrough as a writer came with the publication of her essay "The Difficult Art of Writing About Your Family" in The New Yorker. This piece sparked a national conversation about family dynamics, cultural identity, and the challenges of writing about one's own life.
In 2017, Koul published her debut book, One Day We'll All Be Dead and None of This Will Matter, which became a bestseller in Canada. The book is a collection of essays that explore themes such as identity, family, love, and mortality.
Koul has received numerous awards for her writing, including the National Magazine Award and the Writers' Trust of Canada's Shaughnessy Cohen Prize for Political Writing.
Notable Works or Actions
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Scaachi Koul's writing often explores themes of identity, culture, and family. Her work is known for its unique blend of humor, vulnerability, and insight. Some notable works include:
"The Difficult Art of Writing About Your Family" (The New Yorker)
One Day We'll All Be Dead and None of This Will Matter (book)
"How to Write About Your Family Without Losing Your Mind or Dying in a Fire" (Hazlitt)Impact and Legacy
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Scaachi Koul's writing has had a significant impact on the literary landscape. Her unique voice, perspective, and style have inspired a new generation of writers to explore themes of identity, culture, and family.
Koul's work has also sparked important conversations about mental health, relationships, and cultural identity. Her writing has been praised for its nuance, vulnerability, and humor, making her one of the most sought-after voices in contemporary literature.
Why They Are Widely Quoted or Remembered
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Scaachi Koul is widely quoted or remembered due to her:
Unique perspective on family dynamics and cultural identity
Ability to balance humor and vulnerability in her writing
Impactful contributions to the literary landscape, including sparking important conversations about mental health and relationships
* Inspiration to a new generation of writers exploring themes of identity, culture, and family
Quotes by Scaachi Koul
Immigrant parents, when they first move to North America, push towards whiteness, towards assimilation, to survive and thrive. Naturally, their children do too for the first half of their lives. This usually tips the other way, but before we're taught anything, we're taught to hide.
She used to call me on the phone and scream, “I LOVE YOU SO MUCH, I AM GOING TO CHOP YOU INTO PIECES SO SMALL, YOU WILL BE A POWDER AND NO ONE WILL FIND YOU.
Mom talks about moving to Canada as though my father had requested she start wearing fun hats. "Why not try it?" she thought, instead of "This fucking lunatic wants me to go to a country made of ice and casual racism.
I'm not white, no, but I'm just close enough that I could be, and just far enough that you know I'm not. I can check off a diversity box for you and I don't make you nervous - at least not on the surface. I'm the whole package!
I like being present in spaces where I am not welcome because you do not deserve to feel comfortable just because you're racist or sexist or small-minded.
Did I mention Indian weddings last seven days? There are prison sentences that run shorter than Indian weddings.
I have never had to be brave. Bravery is for parents and people who get tattoos in another language or dare to eat pinkish chicken.
Mom has reorganized the kitchen so that the one room that was everyone's room is foreign to me. My visits are punctuated with me whipping around, angrily demanding, "Where are the forks, WHY DID YOU MOVE THE FORKS?" and she has to calmly open the drawer on the other side of the kitchen as if she moved it just to ruin my life. I just found out where she puts the bowls and their new location feels like such a personal attack that I can barely talk about it without raising my blood pressure.
There is no cowardice in removing yourself from a wildly unhealthy and unwinnable situation . . . You shouldn't feel like you have to play . . . you don't owe anyone anything. You don't have to be available to everyone. You can stop.
All things built by humans descend into the same pitfalls: loathing, vitriol, malicious intent. All the things we build in order to communicate, to connect, to find people like us so we feel less alone, and to find people not like us at all so we learn how to adapt, end up turning against us. Avoiding human nature at its most pure and even at its worst is pointless. No one deserves your attention, but no one has earned your withdrawal.